Southwest Airlines Asks Berkeley Women's Basketball Coach to Prove Biracial Son Is Hers

"My guess is because he has a different skin color."

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People who come from mixed families often find themselves explaining and sometimes proving how they are related to their siblings, parents, or children. Recently, one mother found herself having to prove her relationship with her biracial one-year-old son at the Denver International Airport.

Lindsay Gottlieb, the coach of the women’s basketball team at Berkeley, shared her experience in a series of tweets. Gottlieb, a white woman, was with her husband when she was asked to show her son’s birth certificate to a Southwest Airlines employee. The couple had already presented the baby’s passport .

@SouthwestAir I’m appalled that after approx 50 times flying with my 1 year old son, ticket counter personnel told me I had to “prove” that he was my son, despite having his passport. She said because we have different last name. My guess is because he has a different skin color.

— Lindsay Gottlieb (@CoachLindsayG) May 28, 2018

@SouthwestAir she 1st asked for proof with birth certificate. She then said it’s a “federal law” (not true) but asked me to prove I’m mother with Facebook post.What??Mother next to me said she’s never been asked for proof despite diff last name..not shockingly, not mixed face fam

— Lindsay Gottlieb (@CoachLindsayG) May 28, 2018

@SouthwestAir it was demeaning and insensitive, not to mention inefficient. Would have missed flight if it was not delayed. I would advise better training for employees to avoid this happening to others

— Lindsay Gottlieb (@CoachLindsayG) May 28, 2018

Chrissy Teigen chimed in to share her own experience, explaining that airlines may ask for proof in an effort to stop those attempting to traffic children.

airlines have asked this of me, too, with my daughter. once I learned it's a precaution for the very real threat of child trafficking, I stopped being exasperated with it. Now I'm kind of worried when they don't ask.

— chrissy teigen (@chrissyteigen) May 29, 2018

but yeah, it's definitely a situational thing, though. depends on the day, depends on the agent, you never know! going to London is the most difficult with her in my experience. I have to bring a file folder of papers.

— chrissy teigen (@chrissyteigen) May 29, 2018

According to the Washington Post, the airline has responded to the incident, claiming it’s a normal practice to “match the last names of a child and guardian” on U.S. flights. Others agreed with Teigen and the airline, pointing to the risk of illegal trafficking of children and the importance of safety over sensitivity.   

My son is same race, different last name. I carry a folder with passport, birth certificate, custody papers and court order for me to travel with him out of state or internationally. Sometimes I have to produce them, sometimes not. Depends on the agent. Nothing to do with race.

— just_me (@kasasp) May 30, 2018

I’m actually shocked that you haven’t been asked to prove relationship. Child trafficking is a real problem so I would think showing documentation would be standard. I would rather children be safe than worry about their parents being offended.

— Nunya (@QueenNunyaXIV) May 29, 2018

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