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"A lot of times, women have a particular part of the body that they are insecure about and it will take coaxing and mindfulness from you in order to get over that. Compliment, compliment, and compliment. She's going to feel more of a vixen when she feels the most comfortable, so keep encouraging her to realize how much you like that one part of her body. It's more important for the woman to feel sexy in the bedroom than the man to get exactly what he wants visually because if she feels hot, then there'll be a higher temperature in the room that night which is ultimately the goal."