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"House Party" Reminds Us Why the Turn Up Was Better Before Social Media

Reliving a time when partying was much simpler.

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Twenty-five years ago, Kid n' Play were largely known as party rappers. But on this day in 1990, they were catapulted to a new echelon of celebrity thanks to the release of Reginald Hudlin's House Party. Based on a student film Hudlin made while at Harvard University, House Party explored the lengths that the fear of missing out will take kids to, simply because they have to indulge in the moment. That youthful desire to have a good time, consequences be damned, is a sentiment that everyone can connect with. Whether you're 25 now, or were 25 when House Party came out, you identify with that feeling.

House Party is super-meta in that it's a 102-minute good time that examines the art of the good time. It's revered because it places the microscope on a time when fun was pure. That's not to say there weren't sordid escapades at parties back in 1990, or even that all today's house parties are rife with Molly-fueled chaos, but House Party represents a time when kids had fun without the intention of telling the world about it.

If you search Twitter right now, you can probably find some teens tweeting about the ridiculousness of the party they attended over the weekend. The technology of the 21st century has obviously permitted this, but back in the day, people were more into enjoying the moment rather than sharing it with the world.

On House Party's 25th anniversary, this is a look back at how the turn up was better, pre-social media.

Julian Kimble, like many others, was partially raised by House Party. Follow him on Twitter @JRK316.

No Outfit Grids

There was no available outlet for anyone's annoying zeal over their party outfit, and thank God.

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You Could Get Your Ass Kicked and Party Without Total Humiliation

Make no mistake: you could definitely catch the fade, go to a party later, and hear all about it. But back then, people couldn't harass you with a slew of pictures and videos depicting your beatdown. It would be remembered, but in an entirely different way.

It Was Harder to Snitch on Yourself

It's uncanny how frequently people use social media to aid (and almost expedite) their demise. It's easy for parents—or whoever—to catch you if you're creating and documenting evidence for them. Excited while prepping for a party? Only tell the people who need to know.

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Actual DJs

Some people still hire DJs for their house parties, but it's far easier to just create a playlist or goad someone into passing you the aux cord. But even if you did have to deal with a temperamental DJ like Bilal, there's something about the presence of an actual DJ that just makes your party more official.

The Threat of Becoming a Hashtag Didn't Exist

Today, a live reenactment would live on the Internet as #BilalWontLeaveMetheFuckAlone.

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No One Clowning You Via Sub Tweet

Here's how this situation would play out today: "This dude really can't tell from body language that I don't wanna dance with his ass? #Lame"

Granted, that very thought has definitely crossed many a mind over the years, but today it would get tweeted without hesitation. Just sayin'.

Unwanted Guests Couldn't Stalk Your Timeline for Details About the Location

Didn't want an aggregate of fuccbois at your party? Cool. Although they could still probably find it, you didn't have to worry about people tweeting with their location turned on. Or tweeting about your party at all.

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There Was No Instagram to Upload the Inevitable Rap Battle To

Impromptu rap battles will continue to break out at parties well into the future. The advent of the Internet is wonderful, but these moments had to have been more enjoyable before they were relived via 15-second clips.

Zero Time for Selfies When This is the Current Situation

People were too busy having fun to even think about stopping to commemorate the moment.

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No Live-Reporting the Arrival of Angry Parents

Thanks to the limits of technology, there was no play-by-play of an infuriated parent searching for their delinquent offspring. On top of that, none were probably as brazenly hilarious as the late Robin Harris.

People Actually Came to Dance

Dancing obviously still happens at parties, but in a vastly different way. Was it for show? Yes, but kids wanted to show off for bragging rights.

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….And No One Did It for the Vine

With that said, those bragging rights were for the party. People didn't have fun with the hope of it all going viral.

No #FreeWhoever Posts

If someone got locked up like Kid did, it would be exponentially more embarrassing today, because it would all over Twitter.

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No Drunk Videos of Yourself Worsening Your Hangover

No one's condoning underage drinking, but it happens. Know what else happens today? Videos capturing the aftermath of you not being able to hold your liquor. Sign o' the times.

Because This Is Where It All Started

People who are as old as the film itself completely grasp its importance. As a result, House Party has shaped nearly every party from our formative years—even (and probably especially) the ones with the most extreme situations.

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