Punxsutawney Phil may have said that winter was ending early on Groundhog Day, but cuffing season is still going strong for at least another month. Whether you’re playing the long game or trying to lock something down for Valentine’s Day, you want to be ready and prepared at any moment for a date.

As stressful as the prospect of securing a date can be (assuming, of course, that you aren’t an asshole on Tinder), carrying out the planning a first date can be just as terrifying. From figuring out how to act to nailing what to wear, every bit of the process can feel like it needs to be calculated to perfection.

Establishing what you’re going to do on the date is, without question, the most essential part. With so many options available, it's easy to get stuck, lost and frustrated with coming up with a solid plan.To take the stress out of figuring things out, we’ve put together an easy-to-reference list of first date options, from staycations to living out A Star is Born fantasies. This our list of 14 solid first date ideas.