If you work a 9-5 office job that requires a button down shirt and chinos, then you probably shouldn't be wearing PYREX VISION, especially if you're pushing 40. Unless you find yourself hanging out with A$AP wannabes and goth ninja look-alikes, there's hardly a reason to dress like a street goth. But, you can consider items like Supreme's work pants, Stussy's oxfords, and mixing all that up with brands like The Hill-Side and perhaps an item you splurge on, like a denim jacket from Visvim. Just be realistic about where you hang out and the stuff you do, and find clothes that accomodate that without making you look ridiculous.