All nightlife is not created equal. If one member of the couple is shipping off to graduate school in a flyover state and the other is staying in a major metropolis, resentment can quickly brew. One partner may return from a long day of work exhausted and ready to talk about their day while the other wants to spend their after work time bouncing from happy hour to happy hour. If you're stuck staring at the endless cornfields of rural Nebraska while your significant other is attending rooftop urban pool parties, jealousy will likely enter the equation. The best bet is to be honest about your feelings and remember that your partner didn't force to you to apply for an Antarctic research grant, and they shouldn't be punished for your loneliness.