Hip-hop is one of the only forms of music that approaches male-female relationships in a way that doesn't beat around the bush. It's crass and real, and that's why we love it. On the other hand, it's crass and real, and that opens up a very real window into what a bunch of teenage dudes think of women. Sometimes, this is okay. This is "Id" music; you really go through it. Sometimes, it's not really cool at all, as dudes try to live out their unrealistic fantasies in a real world.