There is always a silver lining. Instead of dwelling in the dark, turn the light on and see things with a fresh set of eyes. Own what you’ve got—you may feel like you have the short end of the stick, but don’t let this define your path moving forward. Learn your craft, hone your skills and work with the situation you’ve been given to deal yourself a new hand. Stop resisting whatever it is that you’ve been handed. Your journey may be harder than what you’ve wished for, but at the same time, it is yours to do with what you will. It is all about perspective, after all, and seeing what you have as anything less than an amazing opportunity is cheating yourself. Don’t be afraid of your shortcomings, dick or otherwise. It’s all about learning to flaunt what you’ve got.