If you are going to sext unknowns on OKCupid or Tindr or wherever, don't give them your full name. Don't tell them where you are. Don't add them on your social media and Foursquare your location at some bar. Don't talk about where you work. Just exchange dirty pictures and be done with it. Cyber sex should stay that way. Unless you think you met the girl of your dreams and she also likes the Gin Blossoms ironically. Then you should maybe meet up.