If you're single by choice, and doing your thing, that's awesome. We're all for it. But if you've been on the prowl and perpetually come up short and come home alone, it might be time to face some hard truths. 

The dating game is survival of the fittest, and if you're barely scraping by and about to embark on yet another cuffing season solo, you need to evolve. Here's a good place to start: 10 Reasons Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend.

By Shanté Cosme (@ShanteCosme)

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