You know how impressed you get when your girl knows that Metta World Peace is an actual person and offers to play Call of Duty with you? Well, consider liking the ABC Family series the female equivalent of that.

Just one reference to Vivian Darkbloom or another insidery PLL detail will erase those countless nights of fights about how you never pay attention to her and don’t care about what she likes. Plus, showing an avid interest in one of her favorite fictional characters has the same knee-weakening effect for her as you holding a kitten.