So, you’re still keeping people on the back burner if things don’t work out, huh? You may think that keeping your options open is a good plan, but it actually means you’re not totally invested.
If you lack strong feelings for your partner, then get real with yourself. But if you’re just scared to fully commit (or there’s another reason you like being semi-available), rectify your behavior. It’s selfish to be in a relationship, while still making sure none of your exes or almosts or maybes forget about you.