Make her your priority.
Lyrics: "If you want my golden flower, make me your priority/There's nothing above my pleasure/She may be the queen of hearts/But I'm gonna be the queen of your body parts"
Song: Rihanna "Cockiness" (2011)
Rihanna's known to be a little raunchy, but she's still looking for a main squeeze. Her "golden flower" sounds magical, so no one should have to force your hand to make sure you put her first. If she says there's nothing above her pleasure, take the cue.