It’s a not-so-secret secret that women watch porn. We may not be as open about our habits as men are—and most likely watch videos on private-browsing mode—but more women enjoy getting off to porn than you’d expect. Whether we’re in a relationship or not, going solo is a daily occurrence for many of us.

Which leads me to this: Does the porn industry not realize women watch porn? Sure, there are membership sites exclusively for women, but not all women want to dish out $20 a month for porn that usually reinforces stereotypical ideas of what female pleasure looks like. We want to visit PornHub, RedTube, and YouPorn without having to trudge through hundreds of awful videos just to find one thing that will get us off.