You could have it all in your relationship. Anything you want, be it more time with friends, or, hell, maybe even a threesome— you just have to ask.
Just say no to passive-aggressive communication, or worse yet, no communication at all. Neither of you should expect the other to intuit your wants and needs or make the mistake of assuming your partner can read your thoughts.
This year, articulate the things that irritate or upset you, the fears you have, and any other issues lingering in your mind. By voicing these things, you give her a chance to address, fulfill and/or fix them. It's counter-productive to be silent. That's how tiny issues end relationships. Put it all out on the table and give your relationship the effort it deserves.