Men of the world, know this: Women stress about sex far less than you do. We don’t feel guilty if we don’t finish, or if we finish just a few minutes into the act. Sex is play time. We’re not keeping score. We’re spending fifteen minutes (sometimes more?) away from the pressures of everyday life.

Rethink your attitude towards sex. It’s not just another box to check off. It’s not like work; you’re not being judged on your performance. We’re happy to spend a little time naked with you, and all we ask is that you’re fully present, and enjoying yourself just as much as we are. This year, let your fears and preoccupations go. Get out of your head, and join her in the moment, already.