Nothing is worse than sexual selfishness. Like we said earlier, sex should never be about keeping score. But if you’re getting blowjobs on every day that ends with a y, and she rarely gets put to bed, it’s time to rethink your strategy.

Resolve to let your pleasure take the backseat and focus solely on her. Tell her your only goal is to make her feel good and insist you want nothing in return. Don’t make her orgasm your only aim. Revel in taking every possible detour prior to taking her there. Touch, taste, and take your damn time. Sexually spoil her and she’ll be sure to reciprocate when you least expect it. But, then again, that’s not the point, is it?