He says: "Wow, you can really eat. I’m not saying that’s a bad thing. I totally respect thick girls.”
Your handbook calls it: Creating a hostile work environment
She calls it: A quick way to lose her appetite
Why you're wrong: If she takes you at face value, it scans as a creepy comment about appreciating her ass. If not, she thinks you've just called her fat. It's safe to say neither work in your favor.