Before your Thanksgiving turkey could even get cold—​probably before your grandma even started thinking about whether she was making beans, greens, potatoes or tomatoes that day—​holiday season gift-giving pressure had already turned up from a gentle simmer to a roiling boil. As we all know, Thanksgiving is really just a warm-up to Christmas—aka the biggest consumer holiday in America. And while eggnog and convivial cheer is all well and good, that doesn’t negate the fact that one the biggest stressors of the season is gifting: I mean, WTF should you buy bae?

Here’s the good news: We found 10 super talented (and beautiful) women to weigh in on what you should avoid buying her under all circumstances. It’s a start, right?