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Lavender is commonly used to relax people to sleep, but please, no creepy jokes. This is the one to break out on the third or fourth date when you and the lady are chilling at home. If you're a sensitive thug, light a lavender candle and watch the magic happen. If you're corny, but she actually likes your gigalo game, try out a lavender massage oil.