We don’t want to tell you that you’re living your life wrong, but there’s probably a reason why most of your night outs end up leaving you lonely and unfulfilled. What are you doing wrong? All your friends seem to be living the dream on social media but you don’t connect to how awesome parties seem in movies at all. Don’t fret, there are truly very simple steps that you can follow to ensure that you have a grand ol’ time. It’s like how the first rule of Fight Club is don’t talk about Fight Club, but the first rule of party club is have fun and be yourself—you’re a beautiful person who just does everything wrong. That’s changeable.