Cyberbonking used to be a taboo subject amongst digi-nerds, but these days almost everyone is either online dating or has a hardcore online social component to their dating style. Enter the passive-aggressive, attention-whore playground that is Twitter and Tumblr and the insecurity-inducing relationship deathtrap of Facebook. There’s a reason the psycho girlfriend of Facebook mogul Eduardo Severin lit a wastepaper basket on fire and threw it on his bed. A seemingly constant inundation of unnecessary information through multiple social platforms has caused relationships to become rife with narcissism, more openness than an Amsterdam working girl, and unhealthy levels of human connection.

Don’t let the sinternet ruin your chance at a good thing IRL. Take note of these 10 Ways The Internet Is Ruining Your Relationships and maybe go hug an actual flesh-and-blood person.

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