We've never met a woman who has professed her desire for a man with a penis the size of a forearm. However, we have heard more than a few ladies lamenting over a well-endowed man who batters away blindly, like a piston.

This is the real must-have list: a generous lover who pursues our pleasure and makes us feel sexy when we're naked. A man who knows when to be gentle and when to be a little rough, who can handle a naked woman with confidence. It's not about compensating for something you're convinced you don't have, it's about realizing that depth of penetration is only a tiny part of the puzzle.