Keep The Focus On Fun
Appropriate activities to embark on with your hot-weather-hookup include drinking several bottles of Sauvignon Blanc on the beach with no regard for the tickets you might accrue, bottomless Bloody Mary brunches that extend until sundown, and impromptu 2 a.m. dance parties. Notice that none of these are legitimate, pre-planned dates. Spontaneity is the name of the game, gentleman.
This relaxed mentality should also be applied toward conversation. Making out should take precedence over talking politics. Stressful days should be combated with sex and alcohol, rather than a night of talk therapy on the couch. And to clarify, we're not saying you should be rude or treat her badly, we just advocate against sending mixed signals. If you're looking for a fling, make sure your words and actions line up with your self-described state of mind.