Mass Effect

This might be stretching it a bit, we know, but the Commander, whether played as male or female, is both a man's and ladies' man, romancing a good portion of the Mass Effect cast. Add to that, being hit on by 99% of the members of the opposite (and same, depending on player choice) sex. While his “interests” aren't truly canon, it's easy to see that neither race nor gender come into play when the Commander is choosing his favorite partner on the Citadel.