Lesson learned: Make sure your partner likes you for you.

Donna and Philippe had a strange marriage, hence the name of their show, Strange Sex. Their union was mostly built around their mutual kink of “feederism,” which is basically where one partner feeds the other a lot to the point where they gain a shitload of weight until they’re immobile.

Though the two seem relatively happy with their life decisions in the episode, The Daily Mail reported last September that they’d split up, and Donna planned on trying to lose 230 pounds from her total weight of 600. She blamed her poundage gain on trying to make Philippe happy because he found it attractive. Hey, some dudes like them thicker.