There you were, front and center for the sold-out Trinidad James show at SOBs and your girl takes her first sip of a drink then let's you know she's going to use the restroom. You're looking around 20 minutes later and she's nowhere to be seen-maybe the line is long. The lights dim and Trinidad bobs to the center of the stage and there she is, peering out from behind a curtain as you stand there defeated as hell, watching her lining up for that on-stage twerk competition. Hip-hop shows often give women the opportunity to showcase their "dance" skills for an audience, and if your girl gets all dressed up in preparation (only take it off when she's up there "expressing herself"), you've got someone special on your hands.