Venture Capitalist Joe Lonsdale Says a 'Man in an Important Position’ Taking 6 Months Paternity Leave Is a 'Loser'

Venture capitalist Joe Lonsdale tweeted on Wednesday that "important" men who are also new dads are losers if they take six months of paternity leave.

Joe Lonsdale Speaking in New York 2013
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Joe Lonsdale Speaking in New York 2013

Well-known venture capitalist Joe Lonsdale sparked a debate on Twitter when he said men in high-profile positions who take six months off for paternity leave are “losers.”

The Palantir Technologies Inc. founder made the comment in response to Joe Rogan’s criticism of Pete Buttigieg, the U.S. Transportation Secretary, for reportedly taking off two months of work for his twin newborns. 

“Any man in an important position who takes 6 months of leave for a newborn is a loser,” Lonsdale tweeted. “In the old days men had babies and worked harder to provide for their future—that’s the correct masculine response.”

Wow. Great for fathers to spend time w their kids and support moms, but any man in an important position who takes 6 months of leave for a newborn is a loser.

In the old days men had babies and worked harder to provide for their future - that’s the correct masculine response.

— Joe Lonsdale (@JTLonsdale) October 27, 2021

Other prominent CEOs denounced Lonsdale for his remarks, including Reddit co-founder Alexis Ohanian and Garry Tan, founder of Initialized Capital.

“I proudly took my full paternity leave and would do it again. Turns out it helped me win even more,” Ohanian wrote.

I proudly took my full paternity leave and would do it again. Turns out it helped me win even more. https://t.co/7HOVCwZ2F2

— Alexis Ohanian 🧠 (@alexisohanian) October 27, 2021

“Respect that people have different choices, but being a dad is awesome and there is more to life than work and money,” read part of Tan’s remarks.

Initialized has 4 months leave, and I took all 4 months to make sure everyone at Initialized felt like they could do it.

Respect that people have different choices, but being a dad is awesome and there is more to life than work and money.

— Garry Tan 陈嘉兴 🛡️ (@garrytan) October 27, 2021

Lonsdale later backtracked on his language, tweeting that “loser is too harsh,” but still standing by his opinion.

Anyway, loser is too harsh I was being polemic in a reply on Twitter.

Different situations for different ppl. But sr leaders need to be reasonable; most are and people are offended as they don’t realize you can respect women without thinking men and women have the same needs.

— Joe Lonsdale (@JTLonsdale) October 28, 2021

According to Fortune, Lonsdale is a father of three who recently relocated to Austin, Texas from San Francisco. He’s also an associate of Peter Thiel, a conservative billionaire. 

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