Six Easy Ways to Win the Bartender's Attention

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Like any good relationship, you need to make sure that your bar is the right bar. Does it carry your favorite beer and liquor? If not, move on. There's no use making friends with the bartender if you can't order your favorite tequila.

It’s not enough to have your favorite drinks. The bar should also offer some new and innovative ones, combining flavors that you wouldn’t imagine going together—such as Jasmine green tea and handcrafted Olmeca Altos tequila made with 100 percent agave. Yes, you are a creature of habit and take comfort in the fact that your drink will be served exactly the way you want it—every time. That said, when you're feeling adventurous, you need a bartender who you can trust. Ask them to surprise you. Let them know you trust their judgment. A creative bartender is one you can count on to know exactly what type of drink you’ll need in different situations—from a promotion to a breakup.

Your bartender should be an expert in all things alcohol—from the best tequila to local craft beers and unique cocktails. Stroke your bartender's ego by taking advantage of their knowledge. This helps to build a level of respect both ways: they respect you for asking those questions, and you’ll respect them when they give you the answers you’re looking for. Note: don't ask your bartender to tell you about the history of agave tequila if the bar is packed. Ask questions when the bartender has the bandwidth to provide a thoughtful response.

When a bartender gives you a cocktail menu, take some time to read it over. You might see a delicious cocktail, and chances are the bartender is trying to buy some time to get things behind to bar in order.

No one likes to be interviewed, but it’s important to act interested in your bartender’s life. Ask thoughtful questions about his job and experience. These conversations will help form a lasting relationship and show that you're not just talking to your bartender because he holds the liquor.

Although you’re trying to make your bartender your friend, at the end of the day this is a friend you have to tip. The best bartender/customer relationships are born from generosity. So, tip well—it’s something they won’t forget.