Want to take your sex life to another level of kinky? Stop by the adult store and bring home a toy or two. Start with a vibrator, and ask her to use it on herself during sex. Based on her receptiveness, slowly graduate to a naughtier variety of sex accessories.

Whips, handcuffs, cock rings, costumes—build a chest of sex toys that you can dig into when boredom strikes. At the end of the day, half of the contraptions you buy may not do it for you. Many will be funnier than they are sexy. Truthfully, the end game matters very little. It's about being more adventurous and open-minded together. It's about getting a little weird and going as far beyond the norm as possible. Novelty and unexpected fun is the goal; orgasms (and discovering new kinks) are just a bonus.