There’s no question that Stevie J has been an asshole playing both Mimi and Joseline this season on Love & Hip-Hop: Atlanta. When he does things like wear a shirt that reads “I AM GOD” to a therapy session with the two of them, though, he’s an asshole you can’t help but love. Seriously, that takes iron balls. Shady love triangle or not, he truly made this season of the VH1 show, and for that he should be highly commended.

Plus, he’s talented. A three-time Grammy award-winning songwriter, producer, and musician, Stevie used to be an in-house producer for Diddy’s Bad Boy enterprise, where he worked with some of the biggest names in the game. Currently, he’s part of a band he formed with Love & Hip-Hop: Atlanta cohort Benzino called The Magnificent 757s.