Imani here is the ex-fiancée of Milwaukee Bucks player (and veteran of strip club shootouts) Stephen Jackson, with whom she has three children, and apparently she hasn't dated at all since him. Seriously. Anyway, Imani used to he a member of a girl group in NYC before, so sharing the spotlight with a few other ladies won't really be anything new to her, and according to her VH1 cast page bio, she's in the process of "rediscovering" herself (this was a Julia Roberts movie, wasn't it?) and finding her passion in life. Some people do that in a therapist's office, some people do it on reality TV. No judgment.