Neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam are behind a new book, A Billion Wicked Thoughts, (actually it's not that new, having been released in May of 2011, but whatever) which attempts to get to the bottom of human desire and explain how men and women differ in that respect.
What they found was that— surprise, surprise!— men are more prone to having their fantasies driven by visual cues. Very simple things, like a woman's breasts or something of that nature.
Women, however, fantasize about how they might be involved in ways in which they become desired by their partners.
According to the book, the top five female fantasies are as follow: having sex with a stranger, being worshipped in bed, being ravaged in bed, being watched by others and enjoying a threesome.
Women, is that what you fantasize about? Are these situations what get you going?