Keep a tally of who they'd sleep with
Whether you're speaking with your girlfriend or just a lady you're cool with, revealing your most wanted list doesn't make for good conversation. You'll either make her jealous or make her think that you view women solely as sex objects. Save discussing the potential smash list for when you're with the homies, and use your conversation skills to engage in discourse that she'll actually enjoy. Unless she initiates the conversation. In that case, you both can trade notes.