A Gentleman's Guide to Having a Threesome

Lay Down the Ground Rules Before You Begin

Having sex with two people is very different from having sex with one. The change is as significant as when the prosecution finds a third witness. If it's just you and your girl, you can pretend that muffled sound she heard was a car backfiring in the lot. But when there's a third person there, well that's just another voice that can call you on your bullshit.

So be smart. Assess the situation beforehand. Consider the negative outcomes together, because trust, they exist. For example, if she's the kind of girl that easily becomes jealous, will she be okay with you touching someone else, and more? Are there certain physical acts that might make you or her uncomfortable? Is anything off limits? Make sure you ask all of the tough questions, and anticipate what might come up that could cause discomfort on her behalf or yours.

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