A Gentleman's Guide to Having Sex on the First Date

Take Her Somewhere Sexy

White tablecloths and tasting menus are awesome, just not for a first date. On a first date you want to impress with your creativity, and taking her to the fanciest place in town will communicate the exact opposite. It's a nice gesture, but it's traditional and expected and those adjectives don't get anyone hot. Likewise for being stuffed full of Italian food. 

Set the stage for chemistry by veering away from stuffy and taking her to somewhere with a sexy, off-beat vibe. Wine bars are good but border on cliché. Instead, take her to a dimly lit cocktail bar with comfortable seating that encourages getting closer. Take her to a hookah bar and share a few small bites between puffs or a tequila bar where you can dare her to try the mezcal with the worm in it. The mood should communicate unexpected fun rather than a predictable attempt at romance.

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