Diddy’s Dilemma: Cassie Vs. Kim Porter
Forget what Prison Guard Ross said: Around these parts, Sean “Diddy” Combs is the biggest boss we’ve seen thus far. And (unless you count Sienna Miller) he doesn’t even sling that white! Diddy gets props for his business endeavors, but let's not overlook his stable of women.
Although he's been in a decade-long relationship with the ultimate ride-or-die chick'ex-model and mother of three of his children, Kim Porter'Diddy’s been known to flagrantly dip off with shorties whenever he pleased. Rumors have been flying for months that Diddy was spending a little too much time with Cassie, his label's young diva. The latest gossip is that Puff got on bended knee to make the 21-year-old his official girl'for real for real. If this is true, then Kim will once again be left out in the cold. Is Diddy really making the right choice? After the jump, we pit the two ladies head-to-head and weigh in on Diddy's decision.
LOOKS:
Cassie: Simply put, shawty right there is a 10.
Kim : Don’t get us wrong, Kim ain’t no buttherface'she’s definitely a cougar, but it’s hard to fuck with the flawlessness of Cassie’s flawless feminine features. Flawless.
WINNER: Cassie
TALENT:
Cassie: After her first single “Me & U” showed that homegirl had the vocal range of a cucumber, we thought she was gonna pack it up, move back to Connecticut, and resume modeling. But, even though her pipe game’s not too tough, homegirl’s proven herself a hustler by popping up on a number of tracks. She even got Weezy on her newest single.
Kim: This Columbia, Georgia native moved to ATL after high school to pursue her modeling career. Those dreams got put on hold once she met met Al B. Sure at the height of his success and popped out his seed. She was also briefly in a girl group called Girl 6. It appears as if her main talent is getting knocked up by entertainers with curly hair.
WINNER:Â Cassie
LOYALTY
Cassie: She’s only been on Bad Boy for about three years (which is the normal life span for most of Diddy’s artists), so we’ve yet to see if she’s gonna try to make a break for it when (sorry, we mean if) her next album flops.
Kim: Without tying the knot, she’s been with Diddy for 10 years, popped out three kids for him, and stood in the wings as he took J. Lo to award shows and snuggled up with Sienna Miller in Europe. That’s what we call a bottom chick.
WINNER: Kim
PAST RELATIONSHIPS
Cassie: Before being linked to Diddy, Cassie and singer/songwriter/douchebag Ryan Leslie were rumored to be an item. RLes, as he calls himself, is a mega-talented dude. But come on, dude calls himself RLes.
Kim: Kim’s other baby father is none other than '80’s R&B singer Al B. Sure. Yeah, his name’s hella corny and kids today may think he’s wack, but this guy had three top 10 albums and a whole generation of women in heat.
WINNER: Kim
EFFECT ON PUBLIC IMAGE
Cassie: Dating girls half your age'let alone marrying them'ain’t the business. It seems as if homie waited until she was 21 to really go in. Not cool, Diddy.
Kim: She’s been there for him for a damn decade and they have kids together, so if Diddy decided to stay with Ms. Porter, the entire YBF world would think much more highly of him. And she’s actually his age.
WINNER: Kim
VERDICT: Cassie may be PYT of the year, but when it comes to Diddy settling down and getting his grown man on, we’re gonna have to rock with Kim Porter. Some says she’s a gold digger, but she’s the mother of his kids and a cougar. What else do you need, Diddy?
pancakes July 26, 2008 at 12:10 am
us light-skinned n****s gonna make a comeback in ‘08.
JH July 26, 2008 at 2:04 am
If Diddy doesn’t wake up, it will cost him more than child support. For example: fans, respect and the loyalty of his community for having so many babies out of wedlock and refusing to marry the mother of his children.
Thanks for stating the facts!
Bob July 26, 2008 at 7:19 am
P.Diddy as usual is HOT!
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Jeff July 27, 2008 at 2:36 am
I think Diddy’s real dilemma is deciding which girl he wants to put with which personality. I heard about a month ago he wanted to go back to Puff Daddy. So, I think he is just trying to see which girl would fit best with which name he is going by on a day to day basis. Pick a woman and pick a name…
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Dave July 28, 2008 at 7:01 pm
Diddy is and has always been a playboy. It’s difficult to just settle down when you’re used to a whole nother lifestyle. He’s not 20 years old anymore so maybe he’s ready to change. Lookwise Cassie wins but marriage is more than just looks. assie is a young beautiful woman so I can understand why Diddy is smitten with her though.
Megan July 31, 2008 at 1:23 pm
Ok why the heck do every one keep on talking about how pretty Cassie is she is just a regular Mexican, and for God sake you pervs she is really a child when it comes to Diddy. I just really hate the way he is doing the mother of his children. When his sons become men they will have no respect for women or for him.. It is plan to see that most men just look at a womans hair or color and say that is what makes a woman pretty. Kim is a thin dark pretty woman and I think she looks way better than Cassie. And I think it is an outrage that people try and put Kim down, and to the writer of this article you are to much. You really did hate on him in this peice.
Deavon Hammonds August 5, 2008 at 1:08 pm
I feel that Diddy is in the stages of hope and change like Obama, He hopes that with all his ventures being in the mainstream media that his spotlight success will make his choices ok to the general public, The changes he makes are his way of showing growth and wisdom vs his groovy moves of the 90’s and now relating to the business world and his image amongst his peers. Kim would be my hands down choice in the matter due to the richer or for poor factor off top.
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MIKOL JORDEN August 24, 2008 at 11:28 pm
Fuck Puffy Puff Daddy P. diddy,diddy or whatever the fuck his name is Cassie needs to be fuckin with yo Boy right here ya digg?
MIKOL JORDEN August 24, 2008 at 11:28 pm
old bitch ass nigga.
teena October 11, 2008 at 11:47 pm
Diddy, Puffy, Puff-Daddy…whatever,
I hope two men do to your twin girls, exactly what you have been doing to Kim over the last 10 years. Then maybe you will understand. Grow the phuck up and show your girls (and boys) how a REAL man is suppose to act. Personally, I think all these woman are a front and you straight homo. Wasn’t it once determinted that Wendy Williams had some pics of you in a compromising position with another man?????
Milan January 24, 2009 at 2:22 pm
I think that diddy should stay with his baby mom but to a playboy like himself he might feel like he want something new. All hands up for kim she stuck around and is really just getting used
ec February 7, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Diddy, Puffy,Puff Daddy. What the fuck ever. you need to leave that young got damn 21 year old girl alone and stop playin kim. You have never popped the question to her but you go and pop the question to a young slut u signed on bad boy. You need to grow up u faget mutha sucka. When that child support start coming in you gonna wish u had married Kim.I hope she make you pay thousands of child support every month. She had 3 of yo kids, loves you, ya been ogether 4 ten years. how much more do you need?
devonaire love February 11, 2009 at 9:30 am
old ass trying to hit that young
dulcedaisy March 30, 2009 at 11:02 pm
Cassie need to stay away from him QUICK!! she’ll be poppin out Karma Combs soon and losing her career
dayona March 30, 2009 at 11:03 pm
wow both of them are SOOO skinny they need to eat! eww but Cassie is the prettiest face wise
Reals May 12, 2009 at 11:11 am
Diddy is up to his B.S. again.. he only is his to sell records.. he thought that by doing that he would blow her up like J-Lo.. but no… she got naked.. to sell records.. but no.. read his former artist’s book.. “Dancing With The Devil”.. he goes in on Diddy and exposes his garbage
Lady P May 22, 2009 at 6:06 pm
Cassie isn’t Mexican…she’s half black-half Korean
Smartyartist June 12, 2009 at 2:22 am
actually she’s half filipino and half black, hence the last name ventura. the philippines was a spanish colony once.
Angelia May 31, 2009 at 10:00 am
P. Diddy-Daddy-Puffy- whatever his name is can try to be with the prettiest girl in the world but it will not gain him anyone’s respect. He lost respect back in 1994 when Tupac got shot in the ny studio where he was present, who by the way is, was, and always will be the best rapper in the world. He has a woman who only cares about status (Kim) because that is all he cares about. He attracts those who have no integrity because he has none. His money means nothing to a real woman and no woman would tolerate all of his cheating and disregard unless all she cared about was the almighty dollar. This new girl, Cassie is just trying to make a name for herself and does not care about him. He is living in a dream world if he thinks she would want anything to do with him if he was a man with a regular job so they all deserve each other as far as I am concerned. Tupac forever.
cierra September 10, 2009 at 7:50 am
ii reallly dont think kim is down for diddy like she use to .. but wat eva ii thiink diddy can date whho eva he want to as long as they ova 18.
shaking my heard at the bull shit October 5, 2009 at 12:20 pm
Puffy needs his ass whip! that girl(KIM) been wit him to long for him to keep doing her like this! and for the recorde light skin don automatically make you pretty! get a life Puff!
shaking my head at the bull shit October 5, 2009 at 12:23 pm
correction on my name (SHAKING MY HEAD AT THE BULLSHIT!) typo
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